When we are wounded by a broken trust or expectation, we are in the Hurt Locker. Our pain is in a locked box and we don’t know where the key is. Basically, the world (the world is made personal by another person) does not keep its bargain with our expectations. We feel the victim here and the wound won’t heal.
It’s like we tether our living pain in the dead past where we can’t remove the arrow. We can’t redo when the arrow was shot. We can’t fix it with thought. And we can’t fix it with feeling (emotion) because ass feeling (the body) can do is get angry and hurt more. This is a failure in communication…not with the person who wounded you but with yourself. Lets look at this.